The Truth About Why You Keep Attracting Misaligned Love

You’re not broken.

You’re not unlovable.

And no, you don’t need to “heal more” to be worthy of aligned love.

The real reason you keep attracting love that doesn’t feel like love isn’t because there’s something wrong with you—it’s because the version of you that’s been choosing is still wired for survival, not truth.

You’ve outgrown the coping version of you that settled, shape-shifted, and self-abandoned just to feel safe.

Now you’re craving real, reciprocal, rooted love—but your nervous system still recognizes chaos as home.

This isn’t your fault… but it is your invitation.

To realign your body, your boundaries, your truth.

To stop mistaking intensity for intimacy.

To stop waiting to be “fully healed” before you let yourself receive what you actually deserve.

Aligned love doesn’t come when you’re perfect.

It comes when you’re present.

Fully with yourself. Fully honest. Fully ready to stop shrinking to fit what never matched you in the first place.